The Man and His Heart Desires: Food, Sex and Encouragement.

By Fadaka O' Adetu

This is one topic I am particularly passionate about and I hope to write a more detailed article about this someday or publish a book. The way a man think and approach to things is very different from that of a woman. This is because a man is wired differently. For example, a man will probably respond faster to pictures than words but this is different from a woman. Tell a woman she is beautiful and smells good, she will spend the entire day thinking about what she has been told. Say the same thing to a man, he will not even process it in his mind lol. Anyways so what does a man truly desire? Ladies, you need to understand that men usually find themselves in different stages of life. The stage a man finds himself can somehow influence the things such a man truly desires. All that a man wants is not sex. There are other things a man truly desire and I will show you shortly. A man desire

Good Sex

Good Food

Support

For better understanding, I will put the man into different age groups and explain how food, sex and encouragement play out. Although this might not apply to all men but this holds true for most men.

Age group A: 18 - 29years

Age group B: 30 - 44years

Age group C: 45 - 59years

Age group D: 60 - 79years

Age group E: 80 - upward

So let us do some little explanation. May I also mention that these three desires are not all that a man desire but I have selected these three because they seem to be obvious.

Group A- Men in this age group will probably prioritize sex over anything else. This is because majority of men in this age bracket are just trying to find out what they truly want out of life and do. Depending on the upbringing and the exposure of the man you are looking at but in general, sex will come first, then food and encouragement will be the last. Look around you and you will agree with me on this lol.

Group B- Men in this age group are somehow beginning to gain understanding of what they want to do but are sexually active. So the priority again depending on the exposure of the man and upbringing will be sex first, encouragement second, and food will be the least in his mind. This is because, at this age group, he is doing everything possible to build a career or business. This drive can make him go on working for hours and might not really be interested in food. Except the man is a foodie type lol.

Group C: The man will probably be at the peak of his career or business and will not want any distraction. At this stage, his desire for sex will be decreasing and he will began to give more serious attention to his career/business and health (food). So his priority will be food and encouragement.

Group D: At this stage, the man has already seen it all and sex will be the last thing on his mind. Also, his drive for a career or business might be decreasing because he will not have the energy again. His priority will definitely be on eating good and healthy food. Encouragement could come second. Except he is a pop daddy then sex might appeal to him lol.

Group E: At this stage, except you want to kill the man lol. Just give him good and healthy food.

The thing here is all men want good food, good sex, and encouragement (support). You know your man so you will probably understand his desires at different stages of life. You might be wondering do men really need encouragement! yes, they do.

A man who is well fed, well sexed, and receive the needed encouragement and support from his woman should adore you and be lucky to have you.

I hope you find this short article useful and please share your thought and I will be more than happy to read from you.

Thank you.